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Abed Hamdan Jordan

January, 10, 2007 11:35 PM

Great one Ola...Obviously im not the only one who wants to be a philosopher lol

but, I have some comments though,

1) About what happenned between you and your boss, isn't this an enough evidence that girls in general are bloody moody and their mood can change every other second by merely "a word" ??? Im not being judgemental, but it's the nature of girls to be "more" emotional, sometimes.

2)On not hating people. Well, I couldn't agree more about the fact that thinking of someone resentfully is nothing but waste. However, It's my ego that eleminate any anger or resentment, because simply I don't care! or more correctly I shouldn't care.

3) Self-suffiency is the only to creativity, and It comes with independence. To isolate your feelings from others, and not caring about them at all. This applies only to the ideal man which we all are approaching.

Qwaider قويدر United States

January, 10, 2007 11:55 PM

You know dear sister, I really felt you in this article. Its so human .. so touching and you do have some fantastic advices at the end. And no matter what anyone say, I won't believe for a single second that you're evil or have a dark side. You're way too transparent for that. Way too decent for that... Masha2allah

But why were you napping at work!!? Not good ... not good :)

Ya3teeki el 3afyeh

MQabbani
January, 11, 2007 2:28 AM

Nice .... :c)

Thanks GOD some one share me the Idea >>>>> : )

laila United Kingdom

January, 11, 2007 2:52 AM

*sigh* wouldnt it be lovely to shed ourselves from sensitivities? and view actions as they are, and not as how they make us feel?

There is hope, as you age, and as you experience more, your skin toughens, and you no longer judge people as quickly as you do. Critisim remains a bitter pill to swallow, and yes you wont like the criticisor much initially, and no there is no good way to criticise :p but as long as we can disguise these feelings from the person, we are sorted.

The trick is to develop an outer shell, while retaining our intuition... I am still working on the balance :)

I so related to this article of yours :)

7ala
January, 11, 2007 4:24 PM

"everyone must have a bright side somewhere" Trueeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Very nice post ya Ola .. very nice jd!

ramoy United Arab Emirates

January, 12, 2007 9:34 AM

Hi Ola,

I do agree and disagree...

I am not an evil person either
BUT

I do have a rule in my life. Call it harsh or call me m3a2adi.. but EVERYONE is a terrible person until they prove wrong.

We do not live in a society where everyone is good and nice! and yes we should spend some time thinking what people's intentions are because to me it is not a watse of time but rather for protection purposes!

With time we learn how to protect ourselves what to watch out for and what to not.

GOD am making it sound like a war or something!!! sorry! :)

Ola Jordan

January, 12, 2007 1:19 PM

Thanks all for readign and for your nice comments :)

Abed: as for your first point, I won't call that moodiness, but being easy to please and easy to exasperate... as for the third, let me guess, fountain head? :D

Qwaider: I doze at work becaus ethere was no work, but I gotta admit I do nap when there IS a lot of work :D I'ts good because it refreshens you instead of working slower than a snail

Laila: Eloquent as usual :o I agree with you on the criticism thingie, it's never easy to be criticised!

Ramoy: why can't it be the other way around? people are innocent until proven otherwise?

Abed Hamdan Jordan

January, 12, 2007 1:31 PM

hahahha

yes u guessed !

and bedoon ma a7es..shaklo athar 3ala mo555i kteer hadak el eshi lool

Diana Lebanon