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Post Title : Think for yourself [عربي]
 
   
 

thecaller   Egypt   
June, 20, 2006 1:40 PM
asalam 3alykom,
this is so great..the post i mean,
i agree with you that women does that to themselves..and it's not that men are bad..they are just like us..good and bad!!
let me tell you this..i had a very hard life and everyone around me kept dragging me under ,except for my mom!!
all me circumstances screamed for their kind of answer too..but i was raised to know that things are always up to me..i am responsible and when i said no to all the sparklings lies..i knew i was gonna pay the price of refusal cause refusing don't just end the struggel,it is only the begining of it..with time things get a bit cooler and allah would give the inner peace which compensate everything else..
thank you for reminding me of my blessings..
may allah bless all of us:)
Ola   Jordan   
June, 20, 2006 1:44 PM
Thecaller: Thanks for sharing this :) Hope your life will always get better and better
Rana   Jordan   
June, 20, 2006 3:02 PM
you brought a good point , that women bring this on themselves..not all,some.
and i am not saying it is totally the society's fault Ola , but let's keep in mind we are living in a ruthless society.
if a girl was abused by a relative aw someone tried to rape her-a relative she wld shut her mouth , because most probably her family won't stand with her...and let's not forget Crimes of honor (that needs a post alone)
Women shld be armed with education...Education is power so is work.
Nice Post Ola :give:
Abed.
June, 20, 2006 6:43 PM
Do you want my opinion girls ?? or you'll be angry ??? read it and think about it...

I think that Arab Women are ignorants. as simple as that. All young Arab girls are looking for money, cars, clothes..
They judge guys out of their clothes?? what could be worse ??

some Arab girls are too Romantic, bardo wrong...

What I've seen is that the Arab woman lacks the religious background, and lacks the social knowledge. Most of them want to get married, just to get married, no other reason. they have no plans for future, they don't care about raising good children that will rebuild our future. They just care to show their relatives that they married a better guy, cuter, or richer, or whatever. and yet you blame men!!!

How should I treat a woman like this ??? Nicely ??? I might treat her as she deserves, and I should speak her shallow langauge...Or better I could avoid her.
Ola   Jordan   
June, 23, 2006 1:35 AM
You have a point Abed, but you cna´t generalize it... so we´re back to what Rana said: Education. Teach your girls how to judge people, make them look farther than an expensive car and a nice suit...
Abed.
June, 23, 2006 4:52 PM
Im sorry ola, but Im talking about 99% of the girls I met, Im sure there are better girls arround, but the problem is larger than we think..

 
 
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