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Post Title : Violence Next Door [عربي]
 
   
 

siegex   Jordan   
May, 31, 2009 12:05 AM
علا، مرحبا يا قمر
كيفك؟؟ زمان عنييييييي =P

عزيزتي ادراة حماية الاسرة ادارة اصلاح مش ادارة تفريق بين الزوجين او افراد الاسرة
التبليغ لحماية الاسرة يعني انهم رح ياخدو على الرجل تعهد انو ما يتعرض لزوجتو باي شكل من اشكال العنف، وعالأغلب بيخلوه يجيب كفيل يوقع على كفالة معو
هاد هو اللي رح يحصل ازا بلغتي، وطبعا بدك المرأة نفسها تتعاون معك او مع حماية الاسرة وتحكيلهم انو بيضربها او بيغلط عليها او اي شيء من هالقبيل، وهمي على طول بياخدو عليه تعهد ما يتعرضلها

متى ممكن يصير في مشاكل بهيك تبليغ؟ ازا المرأة نفسها راحت على الدائرة القضائية في ادراة حماية الاسرة وبلغت عنو انو ضربها، ساعتها اعتقد بيتم تحويلو للمحكمة وبتصير بينهم قضية وخلاف وازا اثبتت انو انضربت بتقرير طبي مثلا عالأغلب وحسب قرار القاضي بينسجن الزلمة حسب حكم القاضي

اما انو التبليغ بدون الشكوى للدائرة القضائية هاد هدفو منع العنف او التقليل اوالحد منو قدر المستطاع

مني ومنك ببلغ

على كل حال انتي ازا حكيتي مع حماية الاسرة اعطيهم خبر انو ما بتعرفي الست هاي ويمكن تنكر ومن هالحكي واسأليهم ازا انكرت هل بيطلع عليكي اي تبعيات قانونية ولا لأ، وبعدين همي حرين بيقرروا ازا بدهم يطلعولها زيارة أو لا
واعتقد عالأغلب بيطلعوا زيارة على بيتها
Amr Hourani   Ireland   
May, 31, 2009 1:36 AM
Shit happen!
you have nothing to do with personal-in-private-non-of-you r-business-things .. its their own life and freedom

its their fault to accept to live with each others, and being non low profilers!

no need to expose people
Patricia   Jordan   
May, 31, 2009 9:13 AM
what a terrible dilemma. i would be inclined to worry about the children and their safety. by complaining to the Family Protection Department you will be dragging the family into the justice system but on the other hand if you say you are worried about the safetly of the children maybe a visit from the social workers may help to solve the problems. Though once there is sustained violence in a family i cannot see that changing. the Family Protection Dept do try to keep these kind of cases out of the courts if there is another way to address the problem. so call them and take their advice!! T
Ola   Jordan   
May, 31, 2009 12:20 PM
Patricia and Siegex: thanks for the insights

Amr: Well I don't belive it's none of my business as long as children or any helpless person is involved
katatonia   Jordan   
May, 31, 2009 4:19 PM
without hesitation, you should report them, as the children shouldn't be exposed to such a dark behavior.

it's our responsibility to protect them from such abuse.
afzalaung
June, 01, 2009 2:13 PM
Interesting...
i sigh in relief to know there are people in this world who still care for the wellbeing of others.

Recently, there was a case in the media, about a single mom, who physically abused her 5yr old, to an extent that the doctors cant pinpoint a spot on the body that has no wounds/scars. Even his teeth were chipped, if not broken altogether. Apparently the family and friends knew of this, but put up the attitude of 'non-interference', until a newspaper crew spill it out.
The child is now under the care of a welfare organisation, and claims that he still loves his mom, eventhough she beats him.
As for the family and friends, they are coming up with 1001 reasons why they didnt reported it earlier.

Going back to your situation, I'ld say, go report it. They will check it out...and they will decide if the case's worth handling.
Karin   United States   
June, 02, 2009 8:27 PM
If it were only the couple, I wouldn't get involved as what they do, is their business and their's alone but as there are KIDS involved, I would report the abuse - for the children's sake! If nothing will happen on their behalf, these poor kids will have to grow up like this and get traumatized over and over again ...

It is an "iffy" situation and I do well understand your dilemma but I guess you should take a stand!

 
 
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