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Ramroom   United Arab Emirates   
August, 16, 2006 11:59 AM
hi :)

Glad to be here :)

Out of personal experience friends should always be friends.. I would say then shouldnt ever take it any step further.. sometimes we fall for a friend just because we feel so attached to them, but that doesn not mean it will work out in different ways.

Taking it a step further is risky.. because if it doesnt work out as lovers then you would actually loose the friend too. I dont believe that in our society friendship after being intimate works out. We are not s oused to the idea and it is just better to let go!! sad but realistic

peace
ada   United Arab Emirates   
August, 16, 2006 12:34 PM
oh, no!!!!
hi ramroom. thanks for dropping by. i don't know what to do now. i am so confused.
thank you so much for your enlightening words.
i will wait for more of your posts. more power!!
thecaller   Egypt   
August, 16, 2006 6:45 PM
asalam 3alaykom,
Ada..you write wonderfully..great post..so real..
know what??i think stupid people are the ones who can't modefy themselves with circumstances..
Losing something doesn't mean having to loose everything..i'd hate that..
i would like to have friendship with my ex-husband..if he can't deal with it then it's so sad for him..
i guess we can apply that on everything else..
hamede   United States   
August, 16, 2006 7:19 PM
It may work.
ada   United Arab Emirates   
August, 17, 2006 8:42 AM
hi there khalida. nice to hear from you. i guess it will depend on how the other partner would really take the break up. maybe one will have to choose if he is more of a partner or more of a friend. and i am hoping that friendship will outweigh everything. thanks so much.
ada   United Arab Emirates   
August, 17, 2006 8:49 AM
im not sure if thecaller's name is khalida, i hope i am not mistaken. ms. thecaller pls tell me ur name, coz i want to address u correctly.

and to hamede: thanks for giving me some positive outlook about this matter. i am hopeful that it will really work. thanks...
thecaller   Egypt   
August, 17, 2006 12:29 PM
Asalam 3alaykom,
LOL..ada..what makes you think my name is khalidah???
no..infact..it's a great coincedence..today i wrote a post about this...so check it out...oh..you made me laugh..i really like you..
and i like khalidah too..
Neverland   Jordan   
August, 17, 2006 12:45 PM
Hi ada,
First of all, thank you for your kindness :) and welcome to jeeran's blogging world :)

I have to say that I don't believe that ex-lovers can be real friends...I dunno but we are talking about emotions that are involved and I believe when two break up, it means that they don't like each others anymore and also there is no longer things are in common, and so...I dunno, that's what I believe in :)
eno   Sweden   
August, 17, 2006 3:24 PM
i've been there before but it didnt work!! u may lie to urself at first and think u r totally in charge of ur feelings.. but at one point u just cant answer the calls or ask for his help any more.. something will be broken inbetween and by the time it will be one of ur weak point that u want to avoid!! its very hard for both..
nice post ada..good luck
ada2006   United Arab Emirates   
August, 18, 2006 11:52 AM
hi neverland, thanks for sharing your opinion about this, i appreciate your honesty with your comments, because really i'd like believe that everything will be restored to what was used to be a nice friendship after the break up. thanks again....

hi eno. you are absolutely right! Why would lovers decide to break up if everythings really fine between them. and the times spent separate from each other will somewhow alienate one from the other. i hate to think about it....
thanks so much for dropping by.

 
 
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